Your wedding design sets the tone for your entire celebration—it’s what ties everything together visually and emotionally. Whether you’re working with a planner or piecing it together on your own, here’s how to identify your style in a way that feels authentic and elevated.

Start with your surroundings.
Think about your venue and location. A Hamptons estate will inspire a very different aesthetic than a Manhattan loft or a Berkshires barn. Let the space guide you.

Look to your home and wardrobe.
Your personal style is a great jumping-off point. Do you lean modern, minimal, romantic, classic? Chances are, the pieces you gravitate to every day reflect the kind of atmosphere you’ll want on your wedding day.

Consider the season.
Design can (and should) shift with the season. Spring weddings may call for soft pastels and garden-inspired textures, while winter weddings thrive on rich tones and candlelight.

Mood over theme.
Instead of thinking in themes (like “boho” or “rustic”), think about the mood you want to create: is it cozy and intimate? Crisp and modern? Lush and glamorous?

Get inspired, but not overwhelmed.
Pinterest and Instagram are incredible tools—but it’s easy to get lost in trends. Save images that make you feel something, then start to notice patterns in color, texture, and tone.

Work with professionals.
A seasoned planner or designer can help take your ideas and elevate them into a cohesive, high-end experience.